Our Decision to Adopt

First of all let me thank you all for your input on our pictures. I have put most of them in our photo album on our profile. Our profile is all complete except for the introductory letter to the birth parents. I am really struggling trying to decide what to write. I think we will keep it short and sincere, since they probably view hundreds of profiles at a time. I am hoping everything will be completely approved and ready to go by May. The whole process takes awhile but we can be patient. What's a few more months when we've already waited over three years for a baby, right? :)

So here's the story...its a very personal, spiritual experience for me so I will just put the gist of it down here. And its probably best that I am typing this because if I try to talk about it I just cry because of the overwhelming confirmation of the Spirit that its the right thing to do. We know that there is a special little spirit that is meant to be in our family. We had been thinking about adoption for several months, especially after some very heartbreaking, unsuccessful infertility procedures. And finally on Valentine's Day of this year we both felt very strongly to call LDS Family Services. We called that minute and set up an appointment to meet with a counselor. I was very nervous about the whole thing but after talking for one minute with our counselor I was overwhelmed once again and the flood gates opened! I am such a cry baby when I feel the Spirit! We both knew it was right for us so we immediately completed the first stack of application papers. Pretty much all we have left is the home study where a counselor comes and checks out our home and interviews us individually. That will happen in April. So after we are "approved" the process will go something like this (from my understanding):

• Birth parents will be able to view our profile online. If they are interested they will contact LDS Family Services and might request to meet with us.
• Once we are "picked" (which could take a couple of months to a couple of years) we will discuss with the birth mom what kind of communication she would like to have with us and the baby, which can be flexible and change over time
• Then when the baby is born the birth mom usually likes to have the adoptive parents there at the hospital to be able to immediately hold the baby. How cool is that??
• The birth parents will then sign the release forms (usually about 48 hrs after the birth) and we get to take the baby home with us and it will be ours! 
• Then six months later the adoption will be finalized in court (if we have been found worthy parents through multiple home visits). 
• After that the most important reason for adopting will occur: our baby will be sealed to us for eternity in the temple! Yay!

So I probably over-simplified the whole thing because I know it is going to be a difficult process for all parties involved. But, I'm a little bit in the euphoric stage of things at the possibility of being a mom. I have complete faith that Heavenly Father is in control and He loves us and guides us and has a plan for us. I know that Jared and I will be parents someday. We have always known this, even through the ups and downs of infertility.

Adoption is a miracle. We are so very excited to have this opportunity. We have complete respect and admiration for the mothers who lovingly decide to place their babies for adoption. Such a courageous and selfless act to give their baby to a family to be sealed together forever.

Be sure to check out the article and poem in this month's ensign on faith and infertility and adoption. I really enjoyed it. Also here is the link to LDS Family Services: www.itsaboutlove.org

Family Pictures-I need feedback!

Ok. I need your opinion. We had a friend take some pictures of us this last weekend. I need to know which picture you like best of us. And what are these pictures for?? A lot of you already know this but in case you haven't heard...Jared and I are hoping to adopt! We are so excited! We've been working on the application and legal stuff for a little over a month now. We are getting really close to having everything completed. Right now we are working on our online profile for birth parents to look at. So I'm trying to decide which picture should be our main photo. I'm a little bit anxious about this picture because it will be the first thing they see about us. Let me know what you think-I'd really appreciate it!

I will post more later about our decision to adopt and how everything is going.

These are the six we like the best:

I think this one is my favorite.

Show Up at Showdown

 We enjoyed a perfect day on the slopes yesterday with Jorden and Ariel. As you can see Jared was very excited. We had a blast and I love living a half hour from Showdown!

 Nobody told me I was supposed to do the thumbs up pose.

 Ariel being her silly self

 I was the lone skier.

 The drive up there was so beautiful. It had snowed the day before so the trees were all lightly dusted with snow. I was surprised there was still so much snow up there. All the snow is melted in White Sulphur.

 Ariel demonstrated her dancing skills for me. Its no wonder I beat you every time we play Wii Dance Ariel! LOL Just kidding! Be sure to watch her moves in the video!

Thanks for visiting Ariel and Jorden! Come back soon!

Baby Dylan

We now have 17 nieces and nephews! Baby Dylan Rock was born March 4th, weighing 8 lbs. 15 oz. ---Darcy's smallest yet :) --- Congrats mommy and daddy!

Congrats Ryan and Melissa!

Future Mr. and Mrs. Ryan Weishaar! Congratulations and we love you both!

True Love

 True love lasts forever.

Billings, MT temple. Valentine's Day Weekend 2011

P.S. My husband is a.........

Cutie Pie!

Visitors and the Geyser in our Bathroom

So yesterday was a crazy day. Jared had just gotten out of the shower when the knob to turn the water on/off exploded. Then the water came gushing out, just as if it were coming out of a fire hydrant. And I am not exaggerating, we have excellent water pressure! I was downstairs and I heard Jared yelling for me. After seeing that the bathroom was being flooded, I ran to the basement to switch the water off. Thankfully we had previously located this switch when we moved in in case of emergencies just like this. In only a matter of seconds the water had not only soaked our bathroom but had leaked in between the shower walls and went downstairs to the bathroom on the main floor and all the ways to the basement. That drain in our cement basement is so useful! Haha. Anyways, we don't know anything about plumbing, so we called our great neighbor, Boyd, who came right over to help us out. He discovered that the gasket and a metal ring inside the shower knob had broke. After a trip with us to the hardware store he fixed our shower knob. We are SOOO grateful for him! Oh, and just a plug for food storage...we were without water for about an hour and Jared really wanted to brush his teeth. I was so pleased to bring him a gallon of water from our food storage! You never know when you might need something!

This last weekend we had tons of fun with Mom, Dad, Jake, Rachel, Jax, and Bridger. Sorry family this is pretty much a repeat from Rachel's blog since I took most of the pictures from her blog. I'm not even going to try to put cute captions under the pics like she did because they were so good.

My little helpers! Jax I need more wood brought in :)

So competitive!

We just love the hot spring. Mom even wants a SEASON PASS! LOL. Mom you will never live that one down. Darcy, Jackie and Duke-be sure to ask her about that one.

Poor Jared was so captivated by the BYU vs New Mexico game. He was crushed that we lost. But BYU actually went up spot in the rankings to #8!

Ketchup is even good on cantelope

Jaxon showing me his "muscles" after hauling some wood into the house.

You have to watch this video. Jaxon was so into cycling on the Wii. He got a little mad when he was losing. Thanks for coming family! We miss you big time already.